I wasn't sure what was causing the problems. All I could think of was that I wasn't performing like I used to with my wife. I tried almost everything I could think and it still wasn't helping, exercising, eating right, self-esteem books, everything. Finally a friend of mine told me to ask my doctor about Viagra. Feeling really embarrassed I made an appointment. My doctor told me that yes it sounded like a situation that Viagra could help with. Apparently, many men my age and with the stress levels that I dealt with daily had the same problems. I got a prescription and that night I talked with my wife about what the doctor and my friend had told me. It couldn't hurt was all I thought. After a few days we both saw a change. I was feeling better about myself and our love life was back to the way it was when we first met. I can honestly say that Viagra has helped me and my marriage out immensely. I can't say that it will help everyone the same way it helped me but I would suggest talking to your doctor about it, again, what could it hurt?